The art of grief tending

A compassionate, inspiring and practical programme for those feeling called to hold space for grief in their work, family and community.

Next cohort starts May 2025. Bookings now open.

We envision a world where every village, community and organisation has someone confident to hold space for grief and able to offer a grief ritual where needed.

The calling

why have we created this programme?

We are in turbulent times, both individually and collectively.

Grief and loss touch us all and yet as a dominant culture we are so ill-equipped to support people to navigate this difficult terrain.

This foundational lack of grief literacy is the aftermath of centuries of colonisation and forgotten indigenous ways. But slowly the embers are reigniting.

Embracing and reclaiming grief rituals will be essential for navigating ecological change and humanitarian crises, alongside healing our own personal and ancestral grief and traumas.

This work has never been more needed.

We are remembering the lost art of grief tending. A way of being and relating in community, ceremony and song that was once deep in our bones.

We are finding our way back to welcoming grief as an inevitable part of being human and cultivating the elders, guides and stewards to hold people through these deep initiations.

We need you – the healing practitioners, facilitators, therapists, death doulas, artists and activists – to bring grief tending to your clients, colleagues, family and friends.

Together we can create a space to grieve in every community.

The invitation

is this course for you?

We imagine this course is for people who fall into these categories...

  • Practitioners, space-holders, coaches, and therapists who are curious to integrate grief tending practices into their existing offerings

  • Dreamers, visionaries, and activists who feel the potency of these times and want to deepen their understanding of grief work for collective healing

  • Curious self-healers, mothers, fathers and friends who are looking to share the practice of grief tending with their closest loved ones

“If the world is to be healed through human efforts, I am convinced it will be by ordinary people, people whose love for this life is even greater than their fear.”

- Joanna Macy

The programme

what can you expect?

Overview

Core container

  • 14x live calls with a mix of teaching content, ritual practice and experiential grief tending

  • Including 8+ guest teachers and workshops

  • Tuesdays 7-9pm or Wednesday 11am - 1pm (BST/GMT)

  • Community platform to connect and collaborate with others

Additional support (included)

  • Written workbooks for each course chapter

  • Online portal with all recordings and extra resources

  • Ritual practices and guidance

  • Peer-to-peer support groups

  • Curated reading, listening, and watching resources

Optional extras

  • Exclusive access to in-person grief tending events, ceremonies and rituals (information at bottom of page)

Course details

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    • Explore the history of grief tending and learn about the lineage of this work including the shoulders on which we stand

    • Establish your own relationship with different traditions, connect to your own unique call to this work and curate your individual sources of inspiration

    • Understand the foundations of holding sacred space and the importance of the container for the depth and safety of expression

    • Dive deeper into the gates of grief and receive a creative framework to support your design different rituals

    • Call on and connect with the more than human world to create soul-crafting rituals for life

    • Experience and explore rituals for both individual and collective healing

    • Understand the core facilitation principles of holding space and how to define your scope of practice

    • Learn how to hold trauma-informed space. Including access to a six-part recorded course on grief and the nervous system to watch and integrate alongside the programme

    • Receive a framework to help you design your own grief tending circle and events, including preparation and integration materials 

    • A deep look at the difference between holding spaces online and in person and finding the confidence to explore both

    • Move beyond our patterns and limitations and hold our highest potential as reality

    • Learn how to navigate challenges, projections and conflict while finding compassion and holding clear boundaries

    • Practice the art of becoming a vessel to allow the space to flow through you, connect to something larger than yourself 

    • Explore grief work in the context of colonialism and oppression so that you can understand how to actively be an ally and create spaces of solidarity that bridge difference

    • Explore the shadow side of grief so we can hold space for rage, anger, shame and guilt

    • Learn how to look after yourself in grief work, how to protect your energy and avoid burnout

    • Learn how to express your voice, craft your vision and discover your unique medicine - all with practical steps to get started

    • Receive expert guidance on how to maximise social media and newsletter channels with joy and ease

    • Anchor into your vision and mission to become a torcher bearer for generations to come

    • Build community, share resources and support each other as we venture forward together...

Your teachers

Guest teachers are subject to change.

Booking

£2250

Scholarships and payment plans are available

Pay in full

£2,250.00
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Pay in 9x instalments

£250.00 every month for 9 months
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Questions

  • We imagine this course is for people who fall into these categories...

    • Practitioners, space-holders, coaches, and therapists who are curious to integrate grief tending practices into their existing offerings

    • Dreamers, visionaries, and activists who feel the potency of these times and want to deepen their understanding of grief work for collective healing

    • Curious self-healers, mothers, fathers and friends who are looking to share the practice of grief tending with their closest loved ones

    This programme is designed for people who have already explored a significant amount of personal development, healing work and emotional inquiry.

    You will be expected to have some prior experience in offering emotional support and a capacity to hold space for others.

    You are responsible for gathering the relevant training and experience for whichever contexts you choose to take grief tending into.

  • This is not a programme for people who are seeking a space to process their own grief and trauma. Of course, healing will happen throughout this journey as you will be deepening your own practice of grief tending. But the emphasis is on how to hold grief tending spaces for others. If you feel like your own grief might be too raw, get in touch and we can explore together.

  • We know coming together live creates the most vibrant experience, but we also understand life happens! Every session is recorded and safely stored in our online community space for you to revisit. While we strongly recommend that you join us live for most of our time together (especially that essential first session), you can catch up through recordings if needed. The journey is yours to shape, and ultimately the more you put in, the more you’ll get out. 

    • A deeper integration and connection to your own grief

    • Understanding of grief tending and its role in individual and collective healing

    • Skills and practices to hold and support others in grief

    • A deeper relationship with ritual and ceremony

    • A sense of empowerment to step into your own gifts as a facilitator

    • Becoming an informed practitioner with an understanding of grief in the context of inclusion and colonialism

    • An understanding of the nervous system and trauma informed space holding

    • Appreciation of how to hold clear boundaries and not over-give, while staying connected, so to take care of yourself in this work

    • Confidence to take this work out into the world with a grounded plan for marketing and getting started

    • A circle of people committed to collective healing who can become deep friends for life, beyond the end of the course

    • Connection to greater joy, intimacy and aliveness and the knowledge that you are contributing to the legacy of creating grief literacy for future generations

  • The maximum number of people in the group will be 20.

  • We completely understand the need to be practical. The way we see it, the world is asking for more facilitators who know how to hold grief.

    Since I have been offering grief circles, people have joined from all over the world and the common thread is that they wish they had found this work sooner.

    Once you’ve completed this course you will be able to integrate grief tending into your work and perhaps begin to offer your own groups and events - depending on your level of experience with holding people at depth. Offering 2-3 online groups or a weekend retreat could recoup the cost of the training.

  • Yes, our scholarship program is designed to support those who are dedicated to this path but may face financial challenges. We are committed to inclusivity and diversity, recognising the need for varied voices and experiences in this field, particularly from communities that have faced social injustice and inequality.

    Eligibility - Individuals in financial need who demonstrate a commitment to grief work, in particular those from underrepresented communities (including BIPOC, LBGTQ+ and persons with disability).

    Scholarship details - The bursary will cover 40% of the course fees.

  • No refunds are available once you've booked your place. If you have committed to the payment plan scheme you are required to pay all instalments.

    In extenuating circumstances, you might be able to pause your attendance and join another cohort.

Dates for your diary

Core Training Modules

Chapter one

Tuesday 6th May 2025 19.00 - 21.00 BST / Wednesday 7th May 2025 11.00 - 13.00 BST

Tuesday 13th May 2025 19.00 - 21.00 BST / Wednesday 14th May 2025 11.00 - 13.00 BST

Chapter two

Tuesday 27th May 2025 19.00 - 21.00 BST / Wednesday 28th May 2025 11.00 - 13.00 BST

Tuesday 3rd June 2025 19.00 - 21.00 BST / Wednesday 4th June 2025 11.00 - 13.00 BST

Chapter three

Tuesday 24th June 2025 19.00 - 21.00 BST / Wednesday 25th June 2025 11.00 - 13.00 BST

Tuesday 1st July 2025 19.00 - 21.00 BST / Wednesday 2nd July 2025 11.00 - 13.00 BST

Tuesday 8th July 2025 19.00 - 21.00 BST / Wednesday 9th July 2025 11.00 - 13.00 BST

Chapter four

Tuesday 22nd July 2025 19.00 - 21.00 BST / Wednesday 23rd July 2025 11.00 - 13.00 BST

Tuesday 29th July 2025 19.00 - 21.00 BST / Wednesday 30th July 2025 11.00 - 13.00 BST

Chapter five

Tuesday 12th August 2025 19.00 - 21.00 BST / Wednesday 13th August 2025 11.00 - 13.00 BST

Tuesday 19th August 2025 19.00 - 21.00 BST / Wednesday 20th August 2025 11.00 - 13.00 BST

Tuesday 26th August 2025 19.00 - 21.00 BST / Wednesday 27th August 2025 11.00 - 13.00 BST

Chapter six

Tuesday 9th September 2025 19.00 - 21.00 BST / Wednesday 10th September 2025 11.00 - 13.00 BST

Tuesday 16th September 2025 19.00 - 21.00 BST / Wednesday 17th September 2025 11.00 - 13.00 BST

Peer-to-peer integration (optional)

Tuesday 20th May 2025 19.00 - 20.30 BST / Wednesday 21st May 2025 11.00 - 12.30 BST

Tuesday 10th June 2025 19.00 - 20.30 BST / Wednesday 11th June 2025 11.00 - 12.30 BST

Tuesday 17th June 2025 19.00 - 20.30 BST / Wednesday 18th June 2025 11.00 - 12.30 BST

Tuesday 15th July 2025 19.00 - 20.30 BST / Wednesday 16th July 2025 11.00 - 12.30 BST

Tuesday 5th August 2025 19.00 - 20.30 BST / Wednesday 6th August 2025 11.00 - 12.30 BST

Tuesday 2nd September 2025 19.00 - 20.30 BST / Wednesday 3rd September 2025 11.00 - 12.30 BST

In-person rituals & gatherings

Once you’ve signed up for the training you will receive exclusive access to book your place at our embodied in-person rituals and gatherings to compliment The Art of Grief Tending.

In a world of online offerings it can be easy to forget the profound power of an embodied collective experience and the magic and alchemy of gathering in person. These in person modules offer you the chance to experience the potency of coming together in the embodied flesh, where we can feel resonance and heart connection looking into the eyes of our fellow grief pilgrims, or lean into a hug in the moments we remember we don’t have to do this alone. When humans gather there is a collective alignment that happens in each heart and each body that creates more than the sum of the parts. This is especially potent with grief work.

When we sit in circle immersed in nature, side by side, our bodies, hearts, and souls can release in ways impossible when we’re separated online. We can descend into a depth that transcend words, witnessing tears, offering silent hugs, holding space for vulnerability. This wild and ancient remembering brings us into full integration. We forge deep bonds with our fellow grievers, emerging from the shadows of our pain, rediscovering the beauty that resides within our shared vulnerability. Do not miss this moment to immerse yourself in the collective resonance of this work, leaning into the ancient ways of gathering, side by side, at the hearth, in the profound presence of kindred souls.

Art of Holding Space

22nd - 23rd February 2025

London, England

£345

Rituals of Renewal

24th - 27th April 2025

EarthHeart, Forest of Dean, England

£695