The art of grief tending
A compassionate, inspiring and practical programme for those feeling called to hold space for grief in their work, family and community.
6-month container October 2024 - April 2025
We envision a world where every village, community and organisation has someone confident to hold space for grief and able to offer a grief ritual where needed.
The calling
why have we created this programme?
We are in turbulent times, both individually and collectively.
Grief and loss touch us all and yet as a dominant culture we are so ill-equipped to support people to navigate this difficult terrain.
This foundational lack of grief literacy is the aftermath of centuries of colonisation and forgotten indigenous ways. But slowly the embers are reigniting.
Embracing and reclaiming grief rituals will be essential for navigating ecological change and humanitarian crises, alongside healing our own personal and ancestral grief and traumas.
This work has never been more needed.
We are remembering the lost art of grief tending. A way of being and relating in community, ceremony and song that was once deep in our bones.
We are finding our way back to welcoming grief as an inevitable part of being human and cultivating the elders, guides and stewards to hold people through these deep initiations.
We need you – the healing practitioners, facilitators, therapists, death doulas, artists and activists – to bring grief tending to your clients, colleagues, family and friends.
Together we can create a space to grieve in every community.
The invitation
is this course for you?
We imagine this course is for people who fall into these categories...
Practitioners, space-holders, coaches, and therapists who are curious to integrate grief tending practices into their existing offerings
Dreamers, visionaries, and activists who feel the potency of these times and want to deepen their understanding of grief work for collective healing
Curious self-healers, mothers, fathers and friends who are looking to share the practice of grief tending with their closest loved ones
“If the world is to be healed through human efforts, I am convinced it will be by ordinary people, people whose love for this life is even greater than their fear.”
- Joanna Macy
The programme
what can you expect?
Overview
Core container
14x live calls with a mix of teaching content, ritual practice and experiential grief tending
Including 10 guest teachers and workshops
Tuesdays 7-9pm (UK time, exact dates below)
Additional support (included)
2x one-to-one mentoring calls
Written workbooks for each course chapter
Online portal with all recordings and extra resources
Ritual practices and guidance
Peer-to-peer support groups
Curated reading, listening, and watching resources
Optional extras
Additional one-to-one mentoring sessions (at a reduced rate)
Early access to in-person grief tending events, ceremonies and rituals
Course details
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Explore the history of grief tending and learn about the lineage of this work including the shoulders on which we stand
Establish your own relationship with different traditions, connect to your own unique call to this work and curate your individual sources of inspiration
Understand the foundations of holding sacred space and the importance of the container for the depth and safety of expression
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Dive deeper into the gates of grief and receive a creative framework to support your design different rituals
Call on and connect with the more than human world to create soul-crafting rituals for life
Experience and explore rituals for both individual and collective healing
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Understand the core facilitation principles of holding space and how to define your scope of practice
Learn how to hold trauma-informed space. Including access to a six-part recorded course on grief and the nervous system to watch and integrate alongside the programme
Receive a framework to help you design your own grief tending circle and events, including preparation and integration materials
A deep look at the difference between holding spaces online and in person and finding the confidence to explore both
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Move beyond our patterns and limitations and hold our highest potential as reality
Learn how to navigate challenges, projections and conflict while finding compassion and holding clear boundaries
Practice the art of becoming a vessel to allow the space to flow through you, connect to something larger than yourself
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Explore grief work in the context of colonialism and oppression so that you can understand how to actively be an ally and create spaces of solidarity that bridge difference
Explore the shadow side of grief so we can hold space for rage, anger, shame and guilt
Learn how to look after yourself in grief work, how to protect your energy and avoid burnout
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Learn how to express your voice, craft your vision and discover your unique medicine - all with practical steps to get started
Receive expert guidance on how to maximise social media and newsletter channels with joy and ease
Anchor into your vision and mission to become a torcher bearer for generations to come
Build community, share resources and support each other as we venture forward together...
Your teachers
Guest teachers are subject to change (though unlikely!)
Booking
Due to demand the scholarship places have now sold out. However if you need a payment plan you can reach out to nici@thegriefspace.com to arrange.
Questions
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We imagine this course is for people who fall into these categories...
Practitioners, space-holders, coaches, and therapists who are curious to integrate grief tending practices into their existing offerings
Dreamers, visionaries, and activists who feel the potency of these times and want to deepen their understanding of grief work for collective healing
Curious self-healers, mothers, fathers and friends who are looking to share the practice of grief tending with their closest loved ones
This programme is designed for people who have already explored a significant amount of personal development, healing work and emotional inquiry.
You will be expected to have some prior experience in offering emotional support and a capacity to hold space for others.
You are responsible for gathering the relevant training and experience for whichever contexts you choose to take grief tending into.
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This is not a programme for people who are seeking a space to process their own grief and trauma. Of course, healing will happen throughout this journey as you will be deepening your own practice of grief tending. But the emphasis is on how to hold grief tending spaces for others. If you feel like your own grief might be too raw, get in touch and we can explore together.
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A deeper integration and connection to your own grief
Understanding of grief tending and its role in individual and collective healing
Skills and practices to hold and support others in grief
A deeper relationship with ritual and ceremony
A sense of empowerment to step into your own gifts as a facilitator
Becoming an informed practitioner with an understanding of grief in the context of inclusion and colonialism
An understanding of the nervous system and trauma informed space holding
Appreciation of how to hold clear boundaries and not over-give, while staying connected, so to take care of yourself in this work
Confidence to take this work out into the world with a grounded plan for marketing and getting started
A circle of people committed to collective healing who can become deep friends for life, beyond the end of the course
Connection to greater joy, intimacy and aliveness and the knowledge that you are contributing to the legacy of creating grief literacy for future generations
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The maximum number of people in the group will be 15.
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We completely understand the need to be practical. The way we see it, the world is asking for more facilitators who know how to hold grief.
Since I have been offering grief circles, people have joined from all over the world and the common thread is that they wish they had found this work sooner.
Once you’ve completed this course you will be able to integrate grief tending into your work and perhaps begin to offer your own groups and events - depending on your level of experience with holding people at depth. Offering 2-3 online groups or a weekend retreat could recoup the cost of the training.
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Yes – our scholarship program is designed to support those who are dedicated to this path but may face financial challenges. We are committed to inclusivity and diversity, recognising the need for varied voices and experiences in this field, particularly from communities that have historically faced social injustice and inequality.
Eligibility - Individuals in financial need who demonstrate a commitment to grief work, in particular those from underrepresented communities (including BIPOC, LBGTQ+ and persons with disability).
Scholarship details - The bursary will cover 50% of the course fees.
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You will get out as much as you put in. Here are our guidelines per month:
2-3 Tuesday evening sessions (UK time, 4-6 hours)
At least one group peer study session (1-2 hours)
Time for individual inquiry (reading, listening, journalling)
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No refunds are available once you've booked your place. If you have committed to the payment plan scheme you are required to pay all six instalments.
In extenuating circumstances, you might be able to pause your attendance and join another cohort.
Tuesday 15th October 2024 `~ 19.00 - 21.00 / Wednesday 16th October ~ 11.00 - 13.00
Tuesday 29th October 2024 `~ 19.00 - 21.00 / Wednesday 30th October ~ 11.00 - 13.00
Tuesday 12th November 2024 `~ 19.00 - 21.00 / Wednesday 13th November ~ 11.00 - 13.00
Tuesday 26th November 2024 `~ 19.00 - 21.00 / Wednesday 27th November ~ 11.00 - 13.00
Tuesday 10th December 2024 `~ 19.00 - 21.00 / Wednesday 11th December ~ 10.00 - 13.00
Tuesday 17th December 2024 `~ 18.00 - 21.00 / Wednesday 18th December ~ 11.00 - 13.00
Tuesday 7th January 2025 `~ 19.00 - 21.00 / Wednesday 8th January ~ 11.00 - 13.00
Tuesday 21st January 2025 `~ 19.00 - 21.00 / Wednesday 22nd January ~ 11.00 - 13.00
Tuesday 4th February 2025 `~ 19.00 - 21.00 / Wednesday 5th February ~ 11.00 - 13.00
Tuesday 18th February 2025 `~ 19.00 - 21.00 / Wednesday 19th February ~ 11.00 - 13.00
Tuesday 4th March 2025 `~ 19.00 - 21.00 / Wednesday 5th March ~ 11.00 - 13.00
Tuesday 18th March 2025 `~ 19.00 - 21.00 / Wednesday 19th March ~ 11.00 - 13.00
Tuesday 1st April 2025 `~ 19.00 - 21.00 / Wednesday 2nd April ~ 11.00 - 13.00
Tuesday 15th April 2025 `~ 19.00 - 21.00 / Wednesday 16th April ~ 11.00 - 13.00
Dates for your diary
All times are in UK time zone (BST/GMT)
Please note the December times in bold that are a slightly longer session!